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Hey Kaneisha — I like this idea because I think it relates to more than just your love life. I often notice that when people ask how something is going for me, I can easily fall back on the drama stories of how BAD things are going (this is especially true for things that have been truly bad — like my study abroad experience, or many parts of grad school, etc.). But I have to remind myself that when I tell a story about myself, I’M the one in charge of that story — why focus on all the bad things? So sometimes I make the conscious decision to forget about that bad things, even though it sometimes seems like a lie of omission, because it makes me into a more positive, proactive, good energy person!